mental health

What is MENTAL HEALTH and

how can I help you?

 

I am often asked what mental health truly means and what a mental health specialist does. In this introduction, I aim to answer these questions from my perspective.

Mental health is a complex field that lacks a universally accepted definition. Its primary purpose is to promote and maintain a healthy mental life by drawing from various disciplines, including sociology, pedagogy, theology, and, most importantly, psychology. According to a fundamental thesis, mental health encompasses physical, mental, and social well-being.

Health—mental health included—is a state of balance that requires continuous effort and adaptation to environmental changes, taking into account individual personality traits.

Throughout life, we encounter challenges, conflicts, and crises that test our resilience and coping mechanisms. Often, we face these difficulties alone, without external support or understanding. In such moments, we may feel unable to manage on our own and in need of assistance to regain stability.

A strong integration into society and a supportive network of family, relationships, friends, and colleagues can significantly enhance our ability to navigate life’s complexities. However, even the best support systems can fall short. At times, we may hesitate to share our struggles due to fear of judgment, shame, or a reluctance to expose our vulnerabilities. Additionally, loved ones may offer biased advice or avoid difficult conversations, unintentionally hindering our ability to resolve issues.

When left alone with significant challenges, the resulting loss of mental stability can negatively impact our physical health, relationships, and work productivity. Thus, prioritizing mental health is essential for preventing mental disorders and illnesses.

As a mental health specialist, I work with healthy individuals facing personal difficulties rather than with individuals labeled as “sick.” Unfortunately, seeking professional help is still stigmatized in many societies. However, maintaining mental well-being is just as important as physical health. Feelings of desperation, loneliness, anxiety, depression, or disappointment are natural and should not be viewed negatively but recognized as normal responses during difficult times.

It has long been acknowledged that talking has healing power.

By discussing problems in a safe and supportive environment, individuals may experience relief, gain clarity, and overcome challenges, preventing the onset of mental or physical symptoms.

As a mental health support professional, my role is to assist you—through my professional knowledge, genuine attentiveness, and unconditional acceptance—in reaching the goals you have set for yourself. My own goal is to help you better understand yourself and the life situation you are currently in, and to be a steady, supportive presence along the sometimes difficult road toward your desired outcome.

During our consultations, I do not conduct psychoanalytic or personality-shaping interventions, nor do I lead any form of clinical therapy. I am not a medical doctor or psychiatrist, so I do not diagnose mental illnesses or prescribe medication. However, I can offer broad and compassionate support with a variety of life challenges, including:

  • coping with loss and grief

  • difficulties in decision-making

  • low self-esteem

  • mood-related issues

  • life transitions

  • career concerns

  • burnout

  • anxiety, fears, and sleep disturbances

  • addictions

  • relationship problems

  • managing chronic stress

  • resolving emotional blockages

Of course it is important to deal with the past, try to understand and put up with it as much as possible and as long as it helps us – but the key of our state is still in the present and in our hand.

PÁL FERI

roman catholic priest, helping expert in mental health

Do not waste time on training therapists, rather dedicate it to select them!

CARL ROGERS

american psychologist

“Solitude and being alone are two different things. Solitude is when there is no one to turn to in need. Being alone means that no other men is in present. Being alone can be a longed thing.

EMŐKE BAGDY

clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, supervisor, candidate of science of psychology, professor emirata

my creed

I believe we live in a world and culture that places excessive emphasis on physical health, appearances, and superficial concerns, often neglecting the health of our spirit and mind. Yet, the body and spirit are interconnected, both requiring care and maintenance for true well-being.

A well-known saying, “a sound mind in a sound body,” highlights the importance of mental well-being for physical health. Conversely, a healthy body supports a healthy mind.

We are currently experiencing a technological boom, with machines, devices, and advancements designed to make life easier and save time. Paradoxically, these innovations often lead to greater isolation and loneliness, pulling us away from genuine human connections. Despite the vast reach of the internet, studies show that more people feel lonely today than at any point in human history. In our fast-paced lives, we receive less sincere attention from others, resulting in fewer meaningful and enduring relationships. Yet, the need for these connections remains unchanged, as they are fundamental to our humanity.

Our relationships shape who we are. Through human connections, we explore the world, socialize, learn, and grow.

As a mental health professional, my goal is to create a therapeutic relationship where you feel safe, receive genuine attention, and have the opportunity to grow and thrive.

We may get hurt in relationships and we may get healed in them too.” 

PÉTER POPPER

MA/MSc of psychology, psychotherapist, university teacher, writer

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